
This morning, I will drive to the family home town of Bolton, in Lancashire to collect my mother who is coming to spend Easter with us here in Cumbria.
The journey is straightforward: fifteen minutes will take me from the outskirts of Kendal to the M6 motorway, southbound. After that, at least conceptually, it’s a straight line to the intersection with the M61, which will take me south-east to within a few miles of my destination.
Yesterday, I was musing about a conversation I had with a friend where we related our lives to the voyage of a ship. For mankind, there has always been something romantic – potentially grand – about the notion of a sea voyage. My car journey this morning will be very tame compared with what the ‘ancient mariners’ faced. My car may be wobbled by high winds, but is unlikely to be blown off course. The road completely maps to the journey; I will not find myself having to navigate across strange hills and fields as I struggle to hold a course.
My ship – the vessel of the car – is designed to protect me in the event of a crash; in a way that few such vessels of the past did. And yet, at any time, the several tons of hurtling steel, glass and explosive liquid could do untold damage to others on the road. I may be safer, but the exposure to my own errors or lack of concentration is significant.
Can we compare the journey of our lives to the voyage of a ship? Is life in modern society making us more of a car than a free-sailing ship? Does that mean that where we go is completely pre-ordained by the equivalent of ‘roads’?
It’s a good question… And, often it helps to think in these stark terms…
The first question we might ask is: do we have a ship at all? Are we not simply a point of consciousness moving from a past, through a present, to a future? That is certainly how physics would describe it.
Do we really have any free will in that journey? Or does having to fit in with our world, our society, make us as conditioned as my car will be on its fixed road? Subject only to the weather, the fuel in the car, the attention I must place on the road and the behaviour of others on its length…
From a mystical perspective, we may say that we need to learn to have a ship in the first place. We have body, but that may not wholly equate to a ship. The captain of a sailing ship truly had the skills to take that vessel anywhere on the seas. He may have been under orders to adopt a certain route, but his freedom of choice was absolute.
Beneath the captain and the wood of his vessel was the ocean, a constantly changing surface beneath which he did not wish to go… Staying afloat meant playing by some hidden but very special rules learned over many centuries, if not millennia. Can we compare this to our lives?
The road of ordinary life is there to protect us. It serves us well. But we may choose a seemingly riskier path, one that leaves the road in a seemingly tiny vessel called the Self; one that has no fear of the sea and its ever-changing faces…
©Stephen Tanham
Stephen Tanham is a director of the Silent Eye School of Consciousness, a not-for-profit teaching school of modern mysticism that helps people find a personal path to a deeper place within their internal and external lives.
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Our journey through life well explained, Steve. I remember the times when I seemed to be in danger of capsizing when my virtual craft seemed no more than an unstable piece of flotsam…
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And facing that fear is part of our spiritual growth, Jaye, as is the realisation that we are as important as anything in the universe – but not more so….
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I don’t feel as important as everything else, I never have, but usually quite content to be here!
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To feel your worth is part of understand who you really are, Jaye.
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Love this and the image! Indeed, “Helm is in hand, rudder amidships, steering off the port pump.” 🤩
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Yes, the ‘ship’ works, doesn’t it. All inspired by a new sculpture (the photo) called ‘The Ship’ on the shores of Half Moon Bay near Heysham. We’ll show you when you visit.
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Just awesome, look forward!!
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This is a powerful piece of writing, Steve! Thank you so much. I remember this saying that a ship is safe in the harbor, but that is not what ships are made for. I have lived in a port town with a harbor though, and have seen bad storms wipe out a number of the smaller boats in the port, so I am not sure about the safe in the harbor part. I wish you and your family a happy holiday however you choose to celebrate it. Anne
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You can only take a metaphor so far, Anne… After that the point is well made or it was the wrong one! The idea that a ship is safe in the harbour but that’s not what it was made for is a good one – and adds value to the original idea for the blog. 😎
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And our best to you and your loved ones for Easter x
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Thank you kindly, Jordy. Peace and blessings, Anne
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Another quality piece of writing. There’s something romantic, mysterious and adventurous about ships and seemingly endless oceans…..I too was flotsam for a short while, born of grief (long ago) but it made me more of an empath, for which I’m grateful. Thank you.
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Yes, such experiences give us the ability to relate to what others might be going through – in a way that has the power to change things. Thank you, Joy.
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